Things you MUST know before moving to the US
For many of us foreigners, much of our understanding of American culture comes from TV shows. We fail to recognize the reality of what life in the US is like because it’s not the same as the shows. When you move to the United States, you will notice a completely new culture. Most notably, moving to America can be a bit of a culture shock, even for people moving from English-speaking countries. The culture shock may even have adverse effects, especially if you are from a non-English speaking country. Below are some cultural differences and tactics to best approach and counter potential culture shock for those who relocate to the United States.
Americans communicate differently
It is just normal for Americans to be quite bold. Do not take offense if your new American friends seem ‘overly friendly’ or interested in your life and background. This is a normal curiosity in America. It would be best to get bold and feel free to ask a few questions back. Many Americans are self-driven and well organized, so they will likely want to know about your plans and goals, especially if they are close to you. Perhaps, this is a way to let birds of the same feathers flock together.
There is a strong religious influence
America is predominantly a Christian nation. Nonetheless, religious visibility in everyday life varies between regions. Religion is more prominent in areas such as the South or Midwest. States like Utah, Texas, Louisiana and Alabama, among others, are known for being more religiously affiliated. In other parts of the country, you will notice varying religious and irreligious approaches. It all depending on where in the country you choose to stay. In religious states, you may even find faith’s influence on local laws and cultural attitudes.
Socializing with Americans will help you adjust to basic cultural differences during your stay in the States. You will get a much better sense of what it is like to live there day-to-day. Besides, try to learn as much as you can about the local area, customs and traditions.
Humor does not always translate
What is humorous in your native country may not necessarily be witty to people in the U.S. Surrealist and ‘dry’ humor, as well as sarcasm, is not always received well in America. Chaos can easily ensue with a misunderstood joke. Nevertheless, do not worry if your jokes fall flat. Your audience will take it lightly and understand that you are new and learning American ways of life, so it might take you and your American neighbors time to adjust to each other’s sense of humor.
Distances are perceived differently
In the U.S., people perceive distances differently because of the sheer size of their country. Travelling is in a different context to people from other places such as Europe or smaller countries. A drive of a few hours might be a long way to a person relocating to the US; meanwhile,, an American wouldn’t bat an eye at that. Moving about tends to require transportation. If you can, it is wise to learn how to drive before relocating to the U.S. You will most likely need to get an International Driving License. Legal driving ages vary between states, so check this resource if you are unsure.
Police will have you pull over severally
This might seem strange, especially for those who are new to the U.S.; however, it is good to know what to do when a police officer gestures you to pull over. Unlike in other countries, you should not get out of the car. Instead, stay still, keep hands in the sight of the officer and wait for the officer to come to you. When requested, roll down your window, move slowly to not look threatening and do as you are asked.
There is a strict attitude toward alcohol
The legal drinking age in the U.S. is 21. No one will allow you to enter a bar if you are above 18 to 20 years old. In most countries, the drinking age is 18 and thus this restriction may seem absurd to many people new to the U.S. Most bars and clubs will ask you for identification before you can even enter. If you are underage, they may not let you in even if you do not plan to drink alcohol. Always remember that federal laws regarding possession, purchase and consumption of alcohol vary nationwide. When you relocate to America, beware of the drinking laws for the specific state you are in.
At Mount Bonnell Advisors, we give assistance to people who want to relocate to the U.S. We help them sail through the lengthy legal and visa requirements. We also help them get better settled into the United States complete with resources for buying or renting a home. Feel free to contact us for any additional help or information.
